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Delving Into the Feminine Part 1: The Archetype

In the last few years, there has been a clear emergence of the feminine archetype in all walks of life – spiritually, politically, even in terms of corporate leadership. It is important to state here that we are not referring to feminism and women’s liberation movements, but to the psychological archetype of the feminine, that each of us hold regardless of our sex and gender identity. The purpose of this series of talks is to explore how we as individuals hold the feminine in us and how balanced is it with the inner masculine. The objective is to aspire for mental and emotional balance by working with the feminine.

In the first talk in this series, the speaker introduces the Jungian concept of the feminine called the ‘Anima’ and delves into the process of anima development.


Internal Family Systems Part 5: Dialoguing With Anxiety

This talked was delivered by Rukmini Iyer, Director, Exult! Solutions ( at HELP Library, Mumbai in January 2016.
In this talk (Part 5 of the series), we delve deep into one of our parts that often consumes a lot of space in our internal family – the part that is called Anxiety. Anxiety as a Protector can be very draining and unresourceful. The speaker delves into the process of interacting with our anxious part to release the positive resources the part holds.


Internal Family Systems Part 2: Handling the Protector

This is the second talk in the series on Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model, by Rukmini Iyer, Director, Exult! Solutions ( at HELP Library, Mumbai in Oct 2015.
The speaker delves into the types of relationships one has with one’s parts and specifically focus on the role of the ‘Protector’. The protector is a part of us that carries the burden of protecting the Self from harm. In the long run, it is important to release the memory/belief of harm that may stem from past experiences, and release the energy of the protector, so that the Self may take over the system and bring back the natural balance.

‘Applications of NLP Part 10: The Sanctuary Pattern’ by Rukmini Iyer

This is Part 10 of a series of talks on NLP by Rukmini Iyer, Director, Exult! Solutions at HELP Library, Mumbai.
Sanctuary pattern is the most effective NLP pattern to strengthen one’s intuition and make choices that are ecological/safe for self. The process helps a person activate the unconscious mind in order to make its resources available for decision making, clarity of thoughts, inner peace and protection.

Goal Setting in a VUCA World

April is goal setting time for most Indian corporations. As professionals mull over what targets to commit to for the next one year, and perhaps even ponder over their investment and personal finance commitments, it is important to align with the environment first.

While the business environment always tends to be dynamic, in the last few years, it has become increasingly VUCA. While ‘VUCA World’ has been a trendy acronym for a while now, here’s a quick reference for those who have not come across the term yet:


Given these times, goal setting can no longer follow the traditional annual process. Reviews and recalibrations will be far more frequent. Let us address goal setting in the VUCA World from two perspectives – that of you, the individual and that of your organization.

Individual Goal Setting

Roger Martin said, in his 2013 HBR blog: “Don’t let strategy become planning.” This is the crux of goal setting in the current times. Here are a few things that can help us adapt:

Outline aspirations: By all means, have long term aspirations and clarify those for yourself. Whether it is about becoming the head of your business unit or buying a dream home, acknowledge your goals and let them motivate you.

Identify tasks: Break down your goals into smaller objectives and identify the tasks that could help to finish those objectives. However, plan for tasks only for the short term. In the VUCA World, we often do not know what the next three months bring. Therefore, even as there is a strategy, let your plans take cognizance of the changing reality and adapt. Do not waste time planning every detail about your goal; only identify tasks that are fairly immediate. The long term tasks will take shape as the times change.

Stay present and listen: Presence is about being tuned in – read what is happening in your industry, use analytics to your advantage and keep track of your performance, listen to what is buzzing in the office and the world, acknowledge your gut feelings about what is to come and most importantly, connect these dots.

Collaborate: Competition belonged in the past. Whatever your goals are, learn to collaborate. Owing to high interconnectedness of things, interdependency is high in the business as well as personal environment and this can be used to propel us forward. The sales function can deliver only if operations does well, one salesman can sell better if another colleague has built a good brand image of the product in the market, and so on. We can capitalise on each other’s capabilities well if we are open to collaborating.

Organizational Goal Setting

In a 2014 article, Canadian leadership consultant Brian Brittain said “Making business or organizational progress in a VUCA world requires travel by sail, rather than rail.” He used a very apt analogy to explain that laying out a linear track towards a destination will no longer work for organizations. Companies need to establish a general horizon and sail towards it, while dealing with the unpredictable winds and waves as they come. Here’s what organizations can do to deal with the times:

Move from vision to presence: About three decades ago, visioning was in vogue. A lot of organizations formed long term visions and worked ‘from’ it, given that the business environment was fairly predictable. Now, we can only work ‘into’ a long term vision, not ‘from’ it, given that market realities change very rapidly. Organizational leaders need to stay tuned in to overt and subtle aspects of all areas of business – people, processes, products, price and market – and act very quickly to capitalise on opportunities, regardless of whether these were anticipated or not.

Use individual capabilities: While job descriptions and KPIs will continue to be present for operational efficiency, organizations need to acknowledge that individuals have far more options beyond employment now. Therefore, it is important to acknowledge individual capabilities and aspirations and give them opportunities to perform, sometimes beyond their defined roles, if they demonstrate interest and competence.

Practice consilience: Consilience is the order or the day. Departments and divisions cannot afford to operate in silos. Engagement with each other is key to a concerted effort at delivering your product or service. Therefore, review your organizational design and make sure that the structures and processes allow for high engagement and collaboration.

Stay open to transformation: Change management is passé. In most cases, decisions will be quick and intuitive, while taking cognizance of data derived through constant analytics. Do not expect too much time for planning and review. Identify the right leaders and empower them to execute quick decisions that may sometimes challenge traditional ways of working.

The VUCA times are challenging, but present us with a huge opportunity to shed traditional ways and adopt truly contemporary practices, which of course, are also subject to transformation. There is great scope for personal and organizational growth, that can lead to a stronger, sustainable future, if we collectively stay present and true to the times.

(Rukmini Iyer is the Director of Exult! Solutions. She has worked extensively around Asia in the areas of organization development and training. She actively practices Non-Violent Communication, NLP and Appreciative Inquiry and is a trained expert in conflict resolution. Know more about Exult! Solutions at